Manual for fulfilling your purpose: Lessons from the book of Nehemiah Part 4

Part 4: The art of communication 

Communication is the life-blood of any vision, endeavor or project. Communication brings clarity, direction and certainty. It eliminates assumptions and brings focus. Good communication helps everybody to know what their role is and what is expected and when. Never trust 'common sense' because it is rarely common. Communicate clearly and you will not be sorry at the end.

What then is good communication ? We can learn the art of communication from Nehemiah our study matter. This is how Nehemiah communicated his vision in Nehemiah 2 v 17 - 18 : Then I said to them, “You see the distress that we are in, how Jerusalem lies waste, and its gates are burned with fire. Come and let us build the wall of Jerusalem, that we may no longer be a reproach.” And I told them of the hand of my God which had been good upon me, and also of the king’s words that he had spoken to me. So they said, “Let us rise up and build.” Then they set their hands to this good work

We can divide his communique into 4 aspects .

1. Description of the problem
 
Before you go any further, explain what the problem, question or need is that you are trying to solve. You need to clearly define and articulate the problem. This is important because we can not solve what we don't know. Nehemiah said to his team, 'You see the distress that we are in, how Jerusalem lies waste, and its gates are burned with fire. ' The problem he was describing was the current state of Jerusalem which was lying in waste. This is an important stage at the start of the project. Therefore tangible ways to communicate the problem should be sought. Nehemiah took his team to the 'site' of the problem, and said to them, 'you see the distress we are in.' He communicated intelligibly, practically and emotionally. 

A. Communicating intelligibly
Be clear and not ambiguous. People often say less is more, in this case this statement applies. Don't go rumbling around, be concise, simple and to the point. 

B. Communicating practically
Be creative and use communication aids. Play a song, show a video clip, go the the site if possible. Whatever you say, find a way to demonstrate it.

C. Communicate emotionally
What emotion does the current problem solicit? Nehemiah spoke about the distress they are in. 

Remember this is the time to really connect with your team. At this stage you have to make sure everybody is clear about your point of departure. I call this stage the diagnosis stage. If you get the diagnosis wrong, the treatment will also be wrong. So this is the critical stage. So do your home work, read and research the problem so your can communicate clearly.

2. Progress update
 
Nehemiah gave report on what has been done so far. He said, ' And I told them of the hand of my God which had been good upon me, and also of the king’s words that he had spoken to me.' You need to give a report on work done so far, no matter how little. You need to show  some traction towards the vision. Otherwise your ideas are just that, ideas. Without any work done your ideas remains just part of your imagination. Remember you are communicating because you need help. Not because you need people to completely do the work for you. Even in business, it is difficult to get funding for an idea that has not been implemented. Especially if the concept of your venture has not been proven. It is vital that as part of your communication, you report on some work you have done and the people you have interacted with.


3. Call to action
 
Nehemiah said to the people, ' come let us build the wall of Jerusalem ..' There is no point in articulating the problem if you do not present any possible solution at the end. The call to action is the solution to the matter at hand. The call to action is the vision itself. The vision must solve a problem or meet a need otherwise it's irrelevant . Nehemiah's vision can be said to be 'rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem'. At the beginning (step 1) we spoke about describing the problem as the diagnosis stage. The call to action, or vision casting, is the treatment stage. In the case of Nehemiah , the ruined walls brought distress. However the rebuilding will remove the reproach . The vision should always link up with the problem, or address the need. 

4. Always get feedback
 
Any communication strategy is incomplete without any form of feedback. How will you know if anybody got the message if there is no response? Communication is like a two way road, it must go in both directions, from you and back to you. Nehemiah 2 v 18 says,'So they said, “Let us rise up and build.” Then they set their hands to this good work.' The people responded to the vision that was cast before them. The people were clear in terms of what was expected and were eager to do the work. 

Bible reading plan

2 John 1,
3 John 1

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3. Take action.

Without action, your dreams are just dreams, nothing more nothing less. Nehemiah followed up his prayer with corresponding action.  Nehemiah 2 v 4-5 says, "Then the king said to me, “What do you request?” So I prayed to the God of heaven. And I said to the king, “If it pleases the king, and if your servant has found favor in your sight, I ask that you send me to Judah, to the city of my fathers’ tombs, that I may rebuild it.” The fist step that Nehemiah had to take was to ask the King to release him. He prayed and then acted.

Sadly enough most people do not go beyond prayer. Most dreams never see the light of day. Most dreams never go beyond the papers they are written on.  Don't end up with a prayer. Have the courage to act based on your prayer requests.

We can learn a lot from the journey of the Israelites from Egypt to Canaan, the promised land. The Lord said to Israel, 'I am giving you the land as your possession', but they had to fight many battles to take possession of Canaan (Deuteronomy 32 v 49). The Lord gave them the land but they had to send spies and gather intelligence on the land. They had to cross the flooded river Jordan on foot. They had to fight and overthrow many cities and kings. They still had to act in accordance to the promise.

Psalms 90 v 17 says, 'May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands.' This tells us that there is something that we need to do with our hands. The Lord grant us favor and blesses the works of our hands. If we are to achieve and accomplish things, we can't sit with folded hands. We need to get busy in pursuit of our dreams.

Let us now look at a few obstacles and reasons for inaction.

A. Excuses
Top of my list will be excuses. An excuse is defined as a reason to justify why something was not done. Though sometimes the reasons are valid, it does not change the fact that no work was done. It is better to try and fail than to fail to try. Excuses of many people can fill volumes of books. They range from, I'm  too young,  I don't have resources, I'm not connected, etc. I wish I could tell you what the antidote is for excuses. Suffice to say you need to start where you are with what you have.

B. Fear of failure
Many ask themselves, 'what if I fail?' The answer to that is, 'what if I succeed?' I hate to be the one breaking this news to you; failure is inevitable and sometimes necessary on the path of success. Unfortunately the path we travel on is filled with many slippery patches. Surely you have heard the old slogan, 'fortune favors the brave.' Indeed glory awaits those who embark on their respective adventures irrespective of potential failure. Prepare well to succeed, and always learn from the mistakes you make along the way.

C. Procrastination 
Procrastination is simply defined as postponing something almost indefinitely. People often say, ' I will do it tomorrow '. The only problem is that tomorrow never comes. I have heard of a story of one business man who had an interesting sales strategy. This man had a big board on his shop which read, ' buy today, and tomorrow you get free.' Guess what, tomorrow never came. Many people have great things they want to achieve . Some want to preach to the nations, some want to register a new degree, start a business , lose weight, start a new hobby, etc. The only problem is that they will start tomorrow, and tomorrow has been eluding them since yesterday. Ask yourself a question, ' if not you who, if not now when?'

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2. Seek The Lord and enquire of Him first. 

Start with The Lord before you embark on any project. The book of Proverbs says ,'Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV). With prayer The Lord becomes your Director. When you get stuck He can unstuck you because He is the one directing you. We should not use The Lord like a spare wheel, where we call on Him only in case of emergency. Constant fellowship with The Lord through prayer is vital for nourishment on your journey. Nehemiah prayed. What bring you to your knees? If you can kneel before God, you can stand up to anything. The Word says, 'humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, (I Peter 5:6 NKJV)'.  With prayer, the way down is the way up. So go into your closet and call upon Jesus. The God who hears in private will answer you in public. 

Manual for fulfilling your purpose: Lessons from the book of Nehemiah


1. You must be moved by a need

The words of Nehemiah the son of Hachaliah. It came to pass in the month of Chislev, in the twentieth year, as I was in Shushan the citadel, that Hanani one of my brethren came with men from Judah; and I asked them concerning the Jews who had escaped, who had survived the captivity, and concerning Jerusalem. And they said to me, “The survivors who are left from the captivity in the province are there in great distress and reproach. The wall of Jerusalem is also broken down, and its gates are burned with fire.” So it was, when I heard these words, that I sat down and wept, and mourned for many days; I was fasting and praying before the God of heaven. (Nehemiah 1:1-4 NKJV)

Nehemiah was moved when he heard the status of the walls. The need to rebuild the walls resonated with his purpose. He saw a need and was compelled to pursue and fulfill that need. The question is, What moves you? What are you passionate about? One way to recognize your purpose is to follow your passion. You need to know what moves you, what is the thing that lays like a burden in your heart. People who have achieved extraordinary success are those who had the courage to pursue the things they love the most. This is so because if you love something, you have the required motive and strength to achieve even where others fail. The world waiting for you to unleash your inner beauty, the accomplishment of your purpose.